My nephew informed me that exams at his high school are starting soon. I remember ‘exam time’ at school and the stress it always caused (for my parents too, I’m sure). After all, we all want our children to “do well” in school and to have “good study habits” (defined by www.yourdictionary.com as “the behaviors used when preparing for tests or learning academic material”). However, it’s not always clear what these ‘habits’ are, let alone how to teach them to our children (even those of us who were ‘good students’, don’t necessarily know how to help our children be the same). Truth is, even though I did well in school, I would have definitely benefited from learning some more effective and efficient study tools and techniques.
Study habits are really just a set of skills, such as planning, effective time management, personal discipline and responsibility, good note-taking, as well as employment of various memory techniques and strategies (e.g. mnemonics) that, if employed consistently (i.e. not just at exam time), can make your child’s academic life much easier. However, these skills can also be very beneficial in their lives after school, whatever it is that they choose to do. Therefore, it is never too soon, or too late, to start teaching our children these important life skills!
I have talked about many of these topics in the past so, rather than reinvent the wheel, I have included links to my previous posts.
The importance of study skills
How can you motivate your children to do well in school?
How to study effectively
Mnemonic Study Strategies
Test Writing Strategies
Managing anxiety (during tests and other stressful situations)
As busy parents, most of us have spent very little time thinking about the importance of study skills, although the majority of us would agree that we would like our children to have “good study habits”. We try fervently to convince our children of the importance of studying so that they can achieve academic success and honors status. However, we rarely consider how, in addition to helping our children ‘ace’ their next test, study skills can actually assist our children in many other aspects of their current and future lives.
The below video talks about the importance of good study skills, not just as it relates to our children’s academic lives, but also within a broader context (e.g. in the work world). It claims that study skills are so important because learning them requires us to master the essential life skills of critical thinking, collaboration and problem-solving.
I would go even further and assert that the process of learning study skills, teaches our children such valuable life skills as discipline, focus, organization, persistence and staying calm in the face of adversity (come to think of it, this is the life skill that parents need when we try to help our kids with their studying!!).
Give this video a listen and see what you think!
Watch this video on YouTube: Cost of NOT Teaching Study Skills
Our kids live in a very competitive world and that’s not likely to change. If we can provide them with the study skills that they can use to excel both in school and beyond, then why not do it? But let’s not wait until they’re faced with college exams before we teach our children how to study. Instead, let’s begin teaching them what they need to know in the early grades, so that they can start benefiting right away!